Sunday, 1 December 2013

You must have a "Clear Goal"

Hey, guys i am back after a long time,i was busy in some most important things in my life.So,from today i would be regular in writing and making you inspired enough to achieve your goals and fulfilling your Dreams.

Now,"Creating a goal is the first step that you can take to become successful in life"I know many of you already know what this Goal means and what is its importance in life as you have heard from many successful people saying that to become something big you must have a big goal at first.Now,goals can of different type-it can be a short term goal or long term goal depending on how you want to set the particular goal in a situation.But most of all your goals must be clear.this term "clear Goal" has a vivid meaning and is very important for you to know because there is a difference between "Clear Goal" and "Goal".For your information in 97% cases people who have a clear goal about what they want to achieve in their life are successful than those people what just have created  a  so call goal in their life.Now why is it like this you must be wondering...so i will give some simple examples which will give you an clear idea about what i want to tell you.

Have you ever seen a student promising to get a good result before even starting of the exam(its quite common and happens with 90% of the students) but out of this 90% half of them fail to achieve what they said about getting a good result.Do you know why?Because they don't have clear goal...its just a goal they have created before taking the exams and they have miserably failed.Now what if they have told a sentence like this-i want to get above 75% in this examination.The scenario would be quite different because as soon as they made their goals specific half of the job is done because they know what they have to achieve particularly and that is why they will achieve what they want and will perform good in exams and get the desired result.

So you must have a clear goal before deciding the first step you want to put in a situation Even if you say that you want to buy a BMW, you must be specific the model, the colour and other features. Only then it can be considered a clear goal, and can be achievable.

Having a clear goal will also help you to take the proper strategies in your road to achieve your goal.Now there is a proverb "If you don't write your goals in a paper your goals become dreams" and its very hard to achieve dream as that is the imaginary part and not the real thing.So today get a pen and paper and write down your goals in the paper and start taking action towards it.At first it may be difficult but as time goes you will gain the momentum and eventually achieve what you wanted to achieve.

I know that these are not as easy as it sounds. The point I want to stress here is that the goals you set are going to determine what kind of strategies you are going to use. Hence, it is the goals that you set are going to determine how you should live your life.

Now i hope you have an clear view about what an clear goal's importance in your life so i would say that keep this key together with you. When you are down, frustrated, take out this key again, and remind yourself about your goal. It will give you a lot of energy in your journey to succeed; you will need this key a lot.





Monday, 8 April 2013

Strive For Success


Infinite striving to be the Best is Man's best duty;it is its own reward.Everything else is in God's Hand
you must always be prepared to strive, anytime! This is what you need if you want to be successful. Did you know that every morning, in Africa, a deer must always be prepared to run! Why? Because if the deer is not prepared or run slower, it will become a lion’s breakfast. Did you know that every morning when a lion wakes up, it must be prepared to run? Why? Because if it is not prepared or run slower than the deer, it is not going to has any breakfast.Keys to Success - Be Prepare to Strive for Success So this is what is happening in the real world. You must always be prepared. If you’re not, you either ends up don’t have any breakfast and died of hunger, or become the breakfast of the lions. It may sound cruel, but this is the real world. Always be prepared to strive!
The more you struggle for life the more successful you will be. You know, right now, if you are in your 30's, it is great news because time is your most valuable asset. You can afford to fall (fail) and get up again, why? Because you are still young. You can fall for 29 times and still manage to wake up for the 30th time. When you are at the age of 25, and if you still don’t want to strive for success, then when are you going to pursue for your success? At the age of 55? Therefore, don’t wait, always pursue and strive for the better for your future.
In our life, we have only one season. During spring, it is the moment when we are still young; we are at the age of 20's. It is the best if we get ready and prepare for our future. Then summer will come. This is a very hot season, you will be in the age of around 30, and you must work harder and put in more effort. This is the best time for you to strive for your future and success.
Once you miss this opportunity, autumn will arrive; you will be in your 40's. You will start feeling cold and lazy to move. If you miss out all these 3 seasons, you will eventually come to winter. It is very cold in winter and you are at the age of 50's. Do you think that you will still want to strive for success at this age? Honestly, I don’t think so. Hence, you must always be prepared to strive whenever you can. Don’t wait because time waits for no one!
We strive because we want to have a better future, we want to succeed. Many people wait. They wait for the economy to turn brighter; they wait for opportunity to come to them. Let me tells you, when the economy is down,don’t blame anyone, just be prepared for it. And when the economy turns up, it will be the time for you to harvest your rewards.
In fact, the best time to strive is when the economy is down. This is because when the economy turns well, you will be the leader of your market. Just take all the challenges as a test given from god. God is testing how strong and solid your business is.
Most of us will just follow the crowd. We do what others are doing, that is why we are just followers and not leaders. If you want to be special, and successful, then do what others are not doing. Too many of us are not aware of the importance of being successful. We did what others told us to do or follow what others are doing. Just like we go to school to get good grades, because our parents told us to, and because everyone is doing so.If you want to be successful today, you will have to think for yourself, not for others! 
You must know what exactly you like and where your interest is. I have a friend, and he told me that to work from 9 to 5 is something inevitable, he said that “This is life, a boring life, and there is nothing I can do to change it”. Can you see that? That is why I told you if you want to create amazing results in your life, you have to be different.
Think for yourself, plan for yourself, it is your future, not mine.
The moment you are not planning for yourselves, you will fall into other people’s plan; you will become the stepping stones in other people’s route to success. Strive for success while you can, and that is what makes life so wonderful.
so that's it from this post........you have to strive in order to lead a life in a great way,be active in your every decision and never give up

Thank You,
Anuttam

Tuesday, 2 April 2013

Control Your Emotion

As i have told in my previous post that Mindset is the main criteria if you want to be successful in your life.
now in this post another equally important factor will play a role and will decide your successful future.
Its nothing but simple emotions.

Now what is Emotions?

Emotions are nothing but a natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others.

You need to feel happy all the time. You need to feel positive all the time. Let me give you an example here of how important controlling your emotions can be. There is a father, who works in an insurance firm. One day he had been fired from his company. So he is in a very bad mood. When driving home, the traffic jams. He is so angry and keeps on sounding horns. Suddenly a car hits his car from the back. Now he is getting angrier and get out of his car, quarrel with the one who hit his car. Back at home, he sees his wife and he straight away scold her. Then went into his room and slam the door.


Now, the wife too is getting angry because her husband scolded her without any reasonable reason. The wife keeps scolding their children, throwing things. Then one of the kids drops some food on the floor and the wife give that kid a slap on the face. Did the kid feel happy? Of course not, the kid moves out of the house, and sees a cat walking across. What that kid did? That kid kicks that poor cat. Therefore you see, the negative effect of having bad emotion is so powerful. What if you are happy all the times? You can imagine that your positive emotions will influence all the people around you.


There are a lot of downs in our life. And many people don’t know how to control their emotions to face their downs. We are humans, we are can control our emotions. Why can we control our emotion? It is because we can control our thinking. And why can we control our thinking? It is because we have the power of making decisions. Thus you must learn how to make the right decisions.


You can even pretend to be happy when you are upset. Please don’t say that I’m crazy, but this is true and it definitely will help to cure your sadness. Some people say, when you’re down, try to smile and laugh more. The more you pretend the more it will come true. This is the same as reviewing your goals every night and what you need to do and dream about what kind of lifestyle you want. Your mind will stimulate it to become true.


Did you know that by practicing good and positive emotions and attitude everyday can lead you to a healthier, a more successful life? If you do so, you will influence all the people around you. You are going to create a positive and motivated environment. Just like in network marketing, did you know why network marketers always start their business by recruiting their family members?


This is because if your surrounding is doing the same thing like what you do (to make money or to be successful), you will always be in that topic, and hence you will be more motivated. What kind of emotions you have are going to determine what kind of environment you will be in. Add up 5 annual salaries of your good friends, and then divide the number with 5. You will notice that the number is close with your salary as well. This is the power of surrounding.


If you want to be successful today, always mess with successful people, let their positive thinking influence you. That is why creating a mastermind group, sharing thoughts with people that have the same goals with you are so much important.


so if you want to be successful in life try to control your emotion and you will be at the top of everything

Thank you,
Anuttam

Saturday, 30 March 2013

Train Your Mind

I hope this blog would motivate you all as here i would give you some simple tips to rejuvenate your mind in your most difficult life moments.Well, if you do a survey worldwide about how many of people have ever failed in life,the answer you would get will be in millions but when a question is asked that how many of them have got success after a big failure the answer would be in hundreds only.Well you see the difference between success and failure is very minimum rather it lies within our thoughts of  taking a particular decision either in a positive way or negative.

The difference between a successful man and an unsuccessful man is that of a simple thought.Both of them have once faced failure in life but one has taken his failure as a setback and remained constant in life(unsuccessful) while another have learned a lesson from his failure and have decided to move on and hence a successful person.

The most important thing that will decide your fate towards success is nothing but your own mind

Your Mind Will Determine Your Success And Failure



Your mind is going to be the most important key that will determine your success and failure in life. If you fail, quit and give up on something, it all starts with the mind. You think that it is too hard, that it is impossible, that you can’t achieve it, which leads you to decide to quit, give up and fail. The same goes if you succeed in something. It is because your mind tells you that you can do it, that you are capable, that you have to press on and keep taking action, which eventually bring you the success you want.
Managing your thoughts and your mind are the most important part of winning the game. If you have a strong positive mindset, you will have a strong determination for what you want and thus, you will take whatever action to make you successful Therefore, all you need to do is to manage your mind and your thoughts and you can overcome failure to success
Just like if you strongly believe that you can definitely achieve your goal, you will take more action, produces more results and eventually, accomplish what you desire. This is how success is created and how extraordinary people able to achieve outstanding results in their life. It all starts from the mind.
Your mindset, your thinking and your beliefs will determine your attitude and habit. Your attitude and habit will determine how you look at your dreams and goals and how much action you are going to put in. This will ultimately determine your success and failure in life.
So,i hope now you have understand that just a simple thought or decision can make you so powerful that you can handle any kind of failure and become successful
All you have to do is just think........so start thinking from now on whether you want to be a failure or you want to be a successful person and make your family members proud
Thanking you,
Anuttam